The Psychic Medium prepares herself by first going into a quiet state of meditation or higher consciousness. With this, she raises her energy vibration and consciousness to a high level so that she can communicate with your Loved One. The Loved One has to lower her vibration to communicate with the Psychic Medium. This takes great skill and a lot of energy on the part of each one. Then when the connection has been made, the communication begins! It is similar to a 3-way phone call, where each of the three participants is engaged in the conversation. The Medium hears both parties talking and becomes the translator.